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Creativity Quote by Mary J. Blige

"It was only for two years, and I jumped from family to family. It's very scary"

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Two years sounds bite-size on paper; in a child’s body, it’s an eternity measured in suitcases, strange rules, and the low-grade dread of being unwanted. Mary J. Blige’s line lands because it refuses the neat arc people love to paste onto trauma narratives. There’s no inspirational gloss, no retrospective “and it made me stronger.” Just the blunt logistics of instability - “jumped from family to family” - and then the emotional verdict: “It’s very scary.”

The phrasing is doing quiet work. “Only” signals how survivors are trained to minimize their own history, as if pain needs a certain runtime to count. “Jumped” suggests motion without agency: not moving, not choosing, but being transferred, handled, redistributed. It’s also a word from play - jump rope, jump around - which makes the reality underneath it feel even colder. The sentence is almost childlike in its simplicity, echoing the age at which fear becomes a constant background noise rather than an event.

In Blige’s cultural context, this kind of candor matters. Her music built a public language for private damage - heartbreak, abandonment, self-protection - especially for Black women whose vulnerability is often policed or stylized into “strength.” The quote reads like a key to the whole catalog: the voice that can belt triumph is the same one still naming the basic terror of not knowing where you belong.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Blige, Mary J. (2026, January 15). It was only for two years, and I jumped from family to family. It's very scary. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-only-for-two-years-and-i-jumped-from-158453/

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Blige, Mary J. "It was only for two years, and I jumped from family to family. It's very scary." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-only-for-two-years-and-i-jumped-from-158453/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was only for two years, and I jumped from family to family. It's very scary." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-only-for-two-years-and-i-jumped-from-158453/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mary J. Blige (born January 11, 1971) is a Musician from USA.

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