"It was so draining. Going to parties to rub elbows with so-and-so and act like it's no big deal, when really all I was doing was hoping I'd have the success they had"
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Celebrity is supposed to read as effortless; Katy Perry is describing the exhausting labor of pretending it is. The line gets its bite from that little performance note, "act like it's no big deal", which exposes the whole social economy of fame: you’re not just showing up, you’re managing coolness, downplaying need, laundering ambition into casual banter. In that world, wanting something too openly is the only real faux pas.
The subtext is a quiet admission of scarcity in a place marketed as abundance. "Rubbing elbows" sounds like access, but she frames it as depletion, a kind of emotional cardio where the prize is proximity, not friendship. The name-dropped "so-and-so" is deliberately generic, turning individual stars into interchangeable status objects. That choice matters: it suggests she wasn’t starstruck by a person; she was starstruck by what their success represented, a future she could almost touch but not claim.
Contextually, this lands as a corrective to the myth of pop stardom as pure confidence. Perry, a figure often coded as glossy and high-voltage, reveals the anxious apprenticeship behind the persona: attending rooms where everyone is both audience and competitor, where networking is indistinguishable from longing. There’s also a subtle indictment of the industry’s social rituals, which reward those who can cosplay detachment while privately bargaining with envy. The candor works because it’s unsentimental. She doesn’t romanticize hustle; she calls it what it felt like: draining.
The subtext is a quiet admission of scarcity in a place marketed as abundance. "Rubbing elbows" sounds like access, but she frames it as depletion, a kind of emotional cardio where the prize is proximity, not friendship. The name-dropped "so-and-so" is deliberately generic, turning individual stars into interchangeable status objects. That choice matters: it suggests she wasn’t starstruck by a person; she was starstruck by what their success represented, a future she could almost touch but not claim.
Contextually, this lands as a corrective to the myth of pop stardom as pure confidence. Perry, a figure often coded as glossy and high-voltage, reveals the anxious apprenticeship behind the persona: attending rooms where everyone is both audience and competitor, where networking is indistinguishable from longing. There’s also a subtle indictment of the industry’s social rituals, which reward those who can cosplay detachment while privately bargaining with envy. The candor works because it’s unsentimental. She doesn’t romanticize hustle; she calls it what it felt like: draining.
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