"It was so kind of you to mention that I don't wear stays. What's the point? If you squeeze it in at one point, it only comes out at the other"
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The genius is how she refuses the premise. Rather than defend herself as properly cinched or properly modest, she reframes corsetry as physics, not morality. "What's the point?" is the pivot from etiquette to ridicule. And the punchline - "If you squeeze it in at one point, it only comes out at the other" - is both a practical observation and a sexual-social critique. Bodies don’t become "better" because society redistributes their flesh into an approved silhouette; the demand is arbitrary, and Langtry makes that arbitrariness visible.
As an actress and celebrity, Langtry lived in the public’s gaze, where a woman’s image was her currency and her trap. This quip signals control: she won’t be shamed, and she won’t pretend that beauty standards are anything but stagecraft. The subtext is modern: you can contort yourself to fit the fashion, but the system stays hungry. She chooses laughter over compliance, turning body policing into the joke it always was.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Langtry, Lillie. (2026, January 16). It was so kind of you to mention that I don't wear stays. What's the point? If you squeeze it in at one point, it only comes out at the other. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-so-kind-of-you-to-mention-that-i-dont-wear-118589/
Chicago Style
Langtry, Lillie. "It was so kind of you to mention that I don't wear stays. What's the point? If you squeeze it in at one point, it only comes out at the other." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-so-kind-of-you-to-mention-that-i-dont-wear-118589/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was so kind of you to mention that I don't wear stays. What's the point? If you squeeze it in at one point, it only comes out at the other." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-so-kind-of-you-to-mention-that-i-dont-wear-118589/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






