"It was the dumbest thing I had ever seen, but it's a family thing, and I guess it's clean"
About this Quote
"Family thing" is doing the real labor here. It frames the offending spectacle not as a matter of taste or politics, but as kinship management - the unglamorous job of smoothing over a relative's choices when your household is also a national symbol. That’s the First Lady dilemma distilled: you’re expected to be candid enough to sound human, loyal enough to keep the brand intact.
Then comes the killer qualifier: "and I guess it's clean". Clean is not praise; it’s the minimum standard for acceptability in a culture where women in public life were long cast as moral janitors, responsible for scrubbing the rough edges off men’s ambition. Bush’s "I guess" adds a shrug of resignation, the tone of someone lowering her expectations to meet reality. The subtext is: I wouldn’t choose this, I don’t respect it, but it doesn’t violate the household’s rules.
In context - the Bush family’s carefully curated image of decency, discipline, and public service - the quote reads like a small, sharp window into how that image was maintained: not by constant approval, but by controlled disapproval that still lands on the side of loyalty.
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| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bush, Barbara. (2026, January 18). It was the dumbest thing I had ever seen, but it's a family thing, and I guess it's clean. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-the-dumbest-thing-i-had-ever-seen-but-its-23325/
Chicago Style
Bush, Barbara. "It was the dumbest thing I had ever seen, but it's a family thing, and I guess it's clean." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-the-dumbest-thing-i-had-ever-seen-but-its-23325/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was the dumbest thing I had ever seen, but it's a family thing, and I guess it's clean." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-the-dumbest-thing-i-had-ever-seen-but-its-23325/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








