"It was the hardest thing that I've ever done, and it's still the hardest thing I will continue to do"
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The subtext is that activism, especially around gender-based violence and FGM, is not only politically difficult but personally expensive. Dukureh is implicitly pushing back against audiences who consume trauma as inspiration. The sentence denies catharsis: it doesn’t offer a lesson, a redemption narrative, or a digestible moral. It offers endurance. Even the grammar mirrors fatigue: the repetition of “hardest” and “continue” carries the weight of recurrence, as if the speaker is bracing herself mid-sentence for what comes next.
Context matters because Dukureh’s public role is inseparable from her private history. Speaking out can mean confronting stigma, community backlash, threats, and the constant demand to be “strong” on cue. By naming the work as ongoing hardship, she also widens the frame: the problem isn’t merely an individual experience to overcome, it’s a system that forces people to keep paying the price long after the headline moment has passed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Resilience |
|---|---|
| Source | TEDxBari talk transcript page: “FGM: How to Face the Desert of Indifference” (posted January 17, 2017). |
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Dukureh, Jaha. "It was the hardest thing that I've ever done, and it's still the hardest thing I will continue to do." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-the-hardest-thing-that-ive-ever-done-and-185609/.
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"It was the hardest thing that I've ever done, and it's still the hardest thing I will continue to do." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-the-hardest-thing-that-ive-ever-done-and-185609/. Accessed 10 Mar. 2026.





