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Fatherhood Quote by Harper Lee

"It was times like these when I thought my father, who hated guns and had never been to any wars, was the bravest man who ever lived"

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Bravery gets decoupled from violence in a single, quietly radical turn. Harper Lee lets the narrator measure courage against the most culturally overvalued props of American masculinity: guns and war stories. The father has neither. He hates guns; he has never been to war. Yet in the moment of crisis implied by "times like these", he becomes "the bravest man who ever lived" not because he can dominate a situation, but because he refuses the myth that domination equals virtue.

The sentence works by staging a reversal. The first clause sets up the expected roster of credentials for heroism, then denies each one, so that the final declaration lands like an accusation against the reader's assumptions. "Bravest" arrives not as a compliment but as a redefinition: courage as moral steadiness, restraint, and the willingness to stand exposed without the armor of swagger. Lee is writing in a world where fathers are supposed to be protectors in the physical sense; she suggests the harder protection is ethical, especially when a community is pressuring you to align with its uglier instincts.

The subtext is filial awakening: a child realizing that real strength can look like passivity until you notice the cost of it. Not firing, not posturing, not participating in the sanctioned theater of violence becomes an act of resistance. In Lee's broader context, that resistance isn’t abstract; it's social, public, and punishing. The bravery is choosing principle over approval when approval is the local currency of survival.

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TopicFather
SourceTo Kill a Mockingbird, Harper Lee, 1960. Narrated line by Scout about Atticus Finch; commonly cited in chapter recounting the shooting episode (see source).
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lee, Harper. (2026, January 14). It was times like these when I thought my father, who hated guns and had never been to any wars, was the bravest man who ever lived. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-times-like-these-when-i-thought-my-father-111967/

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Lee, Harper. "It was times like these when I thought my father, who hated guns and had never been to any wars, was the bravest man who ever lived." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-times-like-these-when-i-thought-my-father-111967/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It was times like these when I thought my father, who hated guns and had never been to any wars, was the bravest man who ever lived." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-was-times-like-these-when-i-thought-my-father-111967/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Harper Lee

Harper Lee (born April 28, 1926) is a Novelist from USA.

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