"It wasn't so much destroying my dancing, it was destroying me"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. "Wasn't so much" is conversational, even shruggy, the way you talk when you’re trying not to sound dramatic while describing something dramatic. "Destroying" is blunt and bodily; it suggests not a setback but an erasure. Emin’s work has always traded in that tension between raw disclosure and calculated presentation: the bedroom made public, the diary turned into installation, shame repurposed as material. This quote fits that ethos. It’s not asking for pity; it’s insisting that what looks like a small loss from the outside can be a full-scale collapse on the inside.
Contextually, it reads like a line from someone talking about illness, trauma, addiction, depression, or an abusive dynamic - the kinds of forces that don’t just interrupt your routines, they corrode your sense of self. "Dancing" becomes a stand-in for vitality and agency. Losing it isn’t about missing a hobby. It’s about watching your own aliveness get negotiated away.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sadness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Emin, Tracey. (2026, January 16). It wasn't so much destroying my dancing, it was destroying me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-so-much-destroying-my-dancing-it-was-99649/
Chicago Style
Emin, Tracey. "It wasn't so much destroying my dancing, it was destroying me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-so-much-destroying-my-dancing-it-was-99649/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It wasn't so much destroying my dancing, it was destroying me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-so-much-destroying-my-dancing-it-was-99649/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




