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Leadership Quote by Corazon Aquino

"It wasn't until we got over the self pity that we were able to accept suffering as apart of our life with Christ. A man or woman reaches this plane only when he or she ceases to be the hero"

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Aquino is smuggling a hard political lesson into devotional language: the nation-building kind of adulthood that starts only after the ego stops auditioning for martyrdom. “Self pity” isn’t just a private vice here; it’s a civic toxin. In a country where suffering is both real and routinely weaponized by strongmen, she draws a line between pain that clarifies purpose and pain that becomes a performance. The pivot is “with Christ” - not as a pious flourish, but as a discipline of interpretation. Suffering will happen; the question is whether it gets metabolized into solidarity or into entitlement.

The most pointed move is the demotion of the self. “Ceases to be the hero” goes after a familiar post-revolution script: the leader as savior, the people as audience, history as a stage for personal vindication. Aquino, who inherited both the halo and the burden of her husband Ninoy’s assassination and the People Power uprising, knows how seductive that script is. Her intent is anti-messianic. She’s arguing that real moral authority comes from refusing the intoxicating narrative of being wronged and therefore owed.

Subtext: resilience isn’t a vibe, it’s a relinquishment. You don’t “overcome” suffering; you stop centering your identity around it. In the late-20th-century Philippines, where Catholicism, poverty, and politics collide, that’s a radical ask. It rejects both the dictator’s mythology and the opposition’s temptation to become its mirror image. The “plane” she names isn’t spiritual escape; it’s a ground-level stance: serve, endure, don’t star in your own story.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Aquino, Corazon. (2026, January 17). It wasn't until we got over the self pity that we were able to accept suffering as apart of our life with Christ. A man or woman reaches this plane only when he or she ceases to be the hero. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-until-we-got-over-the-self-pity-that-we-45321/

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Aquino, Corazon. "It wasn't until we got over the self pity that we were able to accept suffering as apart of our life with Christ. A man or woman reaches this plane only when he or she ceases to be the hero." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-until-we-got-over-the-self-pity-that-we-45321/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It wasn't until we got over the self pity that we were able to accept suffering as apart of our life with Christ. A man or woman reaches this plane only when he or she ceases to be the hero." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wasnt-until-we-got-over-the-self-pity-that-we-45321/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Corazon Aquino

Corazon Aquino (January 25, 1933 - August 1, 2009) was a President from Philippines.

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