"It will stick with you and show up for better or worse in spite of all you or anyone else can do"
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Henri, writing in the early 20th-century American art world, was arguing against genteel polish and academic varnish. As a leading voice behind what became the Ashcan sensibility, he pushed students toward life as it is: crowded streets, raw feeling, unglamorous truths. In that context, the line reads like a pedagogical reality check. If you spend your days looking - really looking - at the world, you don't get to unsee it. You can try to suppress it, stylize it, "improve" it, but it will return in the work as texture, bias, obsession, or blind spot.
The subtext is ethical as much as aesthetic. Henri implies that exposure is destiny: what you choose to admire, tolerate, fear, or ignore will "show up" later as your default settings. "For better or worse" widens the net to include trauma and tenderness, cheap sentiment and hard-won insight. The final clause - "in spite of all you or anyone else can do" - punctures the myth of mastery. Technique can refine expression, but it can't fully disinfect the self behind the brush. That is Henri's sting and his liberation: you are responsible for what you let in, because it will make itself visible.
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Henri, Robert. (2026, January 15). It will stick with you and show up for better or worse in spite of all you or anyone else can do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-will-stick-with-you-and-show-up-for-better-or-159582/
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Henri, Robert. "It will stick with you and show up for better or worse in spite of all you or anyone else can do." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-will-stick-with-you-and-show-up-for-better-or-159582/.
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"It will stick with you and show up for better or worse in spite of all you or anyone else can do." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-will-stick-with-you-and-show-up-for-better-or-159582/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









