"It would be nice to travel if you knew where you were going and where you would live at the end or do we ever know, do we ever live where we live, we're always in other places, lost, like sheep"
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The specific intent isn’t to romanticize wandering but to expose how little "going somewhere" actually resolves. Frame turns travel into a metaphor for consciousness: even when the body is in one place, the self is perpetually elsewhere, dragged around by memory, anxiety, imagination, longing. "Do we ever live where we live" lands like an accusation against the idea of stable identity, stable home, stable narrative. The subtext is a quiet panic about belonging - not the glamorous kind of rootlessness, but the exhausting sense that you never quite inhabit your own life.
Frame’s work is steeped in displacement and misrecognition, shaped by a New Zealand outsider’s angle and by her own history of institutionalization and social estrangement. That context matters: the line reads less like philosophical play and more like lived skepticism toward any system that promises neat endpoints. The closing image, "lost, like sheep", is deliberately unflattering - not heroic pilgrims, not bold explorers, but herd animals without a map. It’s bleak, but also bracingly honest about how often we confuse movement with direction.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frame, Janet. (2026, January 15). It would be nice to travel if you knew where you were going and where you would live at the end or do we ever know, do we ever live where we live, we're always in other places, lost, like sheep. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-would-be-nice-to-travel-if-you-knew-where-you-156323/
Chicago Style
Frame, Janet. "It would be nice to travel if you knew where you were going and where you would live at the end or do we ever know, do we ever live where we live, we're always in other places, lost, like sheep." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-would-be-nice-to-travel-if-you-knew-where-you-156323/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It would be nice to travel if you knew where you were going and where you would live at the end or do we ever know, do we ever live where we live, we're always in other places, lost, like sheep." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-would-be-nice-to-travel-if-you-knew-where-you-156323/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







