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Motherhood Quote by George Weinberg

"It wouldn't have mattered to my mother if I married a black, was gay, lived in a commune or wore a dress"

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What lands here is the casual absolutism: a list of mid-century panic buttons delivered as if they were weather. Weinberg stacks “married a black,” “was gay,” “lived in a commune,” “wore a dress” into one breath, refusing to rank transgressions or treat any as especially shocking. That rhetorical flattening is the point. He’s not asking for applause; he’s normalizing the whole messy spectrum of identity and lifestyle by presenting it as equally unthreatening to the person who mattered most.

The subtext is a quiet rebuke to the era’s moral bookkeeping. In mid-20th-century America, each item on that list could cost you family, work, safety. By saying it “wouldn’t have mattered,” Weinberg sketches a maternal ethic that outpaces the culture: love that isn’t conditional on respectability. There’s also a tactical generosity in his phrasing. He doesn’t claim his mother was politically enlightened, only that her loyalty was stronger than taboo. That distinction keeps the line from turning into a virtue-signaling fable; it reads like lived memory, not an Instagram caption.

Context sharpens it further. Weinberg, a psychologist associated with the shift away from pathologizing homosexuality (and credited with popularizing “homophobia”), knew how institutions dress prejudice up as diagnosis. This sentence counters that clinical gaze with a domestic one: an origin story where acceptance isn’t argued into existence, it’s simply practiced. The list becomes a miniature manifesto: if these categories are only scandalous because society insists they are, a mother’s indifference is its own form of dissent.

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Weinberg, George. (2026, January 17). It wouldn't have mattered to my mother if I married a black, was gay, lived in a commune or wore a dress. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wouldnt-have-mattered-to-my-mother-if-i-53480/

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Weinberg, George. "It wouldn't have mattered to my mother if I married a black, was gay, lived in a commune or wore a dress." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wouldnt-have-mattered-to-my-mother-if-i-53480/.

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"It wouldn't have mattered to my mother if I married a black, was gay, lived in a commune or wore a dress." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-wouldnt-have-mattered-to-my-mother-if-i-53480/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.

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George Weinberg (1929 - 2017) was a Psychologist from USA.

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