"Italians come to ruin most generally in three ways, women, gambling, and farming. My family chose the slowest one"
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The intent is disarming. As a clergyman, he could thunder about temptation and sin. Instead he opts for self-deprecation, which subtly repositions authority. He is not speaking down from the Vatican balcony; he is speaking from the same mud and kitchen tables as his audience. That matters for John XXIII, whose papacy leaned hard into pastoral warmth and accessibility. Humor becomes a strategy of governance: soften the room, earn trust, then lead.
The subtext is also quietly political. Farming here is not idyllic; it is economic precarity dressed as virtue. By calling it "ruin", he acknowledges the structural fragility of rural life in Italy - a country where land could mean identity and inheritance, but also stagnation. The line lets him nod to hardship without sounding bitter, and it reframes "slow ruin" as a kind of dignity: the burdens you choose because they are honest, familiar, and shared.
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XXIII, Pope John. (2026, January 15). Italians come to ruin most generally in three ways, women, gambling, and farming. My family chose the slowest one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/italians-come-to-ruin-most-generally-in-three-147860/
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XXIII, Pope John. "Italians come to ruin most generally in three ways, women, gambling, and farming. My family chose the slowest one." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/italians-come-to-ruin-most-generally-in-three-147860/.
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"Italians come to ruin most generally in three ways, women, gambling, and farming. My family chose the slowest one." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/italians-come-to-ruin-most-generally-in-three-147860/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



