"It's a rare thing to find somebody you can work with, work off of, and have fun with"
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The subtext is a quiet rebuttal to the fantasy that talent alone carries a set. In long-running TV and theater ecosystems especially, you can’t brute-force great scenes every day; you need partners who reliably hand you something usable - a look, a pause, a rhythm - and who can catch what you throw back. Ashford’s “rare thing” acknowledges how many working relationships hover at “fine” but never cross into that mutually amplifying zone.
Context matters: actors live in an industry of rotating casts, uneven scripts, and egos managed like weather. The quote reads like someone who’s seen both extremes: the technically competent colleague who drains a room, and the fun hang who can’t hit marks. Ashford’s ideal is the overlap, the small miracle where craft and camaraderie align - because when it happens, performance stops feeling like labor and starts feeling like play with consequences.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ashford, Matthew. (2026, January 16). It's a rare thing to find somebody you can work with, work off of, and have fun with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-rare-thing-to-find-somebody-you-can-work-88713/
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Ashford, Matthew. "It's a rare thing to find somebody you can work with, work off of, and have fun with." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-rare-thing-to-find-somebody-you-can-work-88713/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's a rare thing to find somebody you can work with, work off of, and have fun with." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-rare-thing-to-find-somebody-you-can-work-88713/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




