"It's a sort of bloom on a woman. If you have it, you don't need to have anything else; and if you don't have it, it doesn't much matter what else you have"
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The intent reads like the drawing-room voice of Edwardian fiction: light, amused, almost protective in its certainty. That surface charm is the mechanism. By making the judgment sound like common sense, Barrie smuggles in a hierarchy that feels natural rather than imposed. "Sort of" even adds a shrugging plausibility, as if the speaker is only reporting a social truth, not enforcing it.
Context matters: Barrie’s era traded heavily in the idea of feminine "charm" as social currency, especially in a world where women’s public options were constrained. The bloom becomes a gatekeeping concept - mysterious enough to be unchallengeable, subjective enough to be policed. It flatters the chosen and disciplines everyone else, while letting the observer pretend he’s merely noticing what nature already decided.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barrie, J. M. (2026, January 14). It's a sort of bloom on a woman. If you have it, you don't need to have anything else; and if you don't have it, it doesn't much matter what else you have. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-sort-of-bloom-on-a-woman-if-you-have-it-you-151015/
Chicago Style
Barrie, J. M. "It's a sort of bloom on a woman. If you have it, you don't need to have anything else; and if you don't have it, it doesn't much matter what else you have." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-sort-of-bloom-on-a-woman-if-you-have-it-you-151015/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's a sort of bloom on a woman. If you have it, you don't need to have anything else; and if you don't have it, it doesn't much matter what else you have." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-sort-of-bloom-on-a-woman-if-you-have-it-you-151015/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.




