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Creativity Quote by Maria Callas

"It's a terrible thing to go through life thinking that you have a rock on your side when you haven't"

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Callas isn’t talking about geology. She’s talking about the private terror of staking your whole nervous system on a person, a promise, a career, and discovering the foundation is wishful thinking. “A rock” is deliberately plain, almost bluntly domestic: not a muse, not a soulmate, not a grand destiny. Something basic and load-bearing. The phrase “on your side” makes it feel like battle footing, as if life is a long campaign and what keeps you upright is the certainty that someone will hold the line with you.

The cruelty in the sentence is in its pacing. It starts wide, like a moral observation, then narrows into accusation: “when you haven’t.” No drama, no ornament, just the snap of reality. That’s Callas’s musical sensibility in prose: the control, the economy, the refusal to prettify pain. It also exposes the subtext of her public myth. Opera sells us the fantasy of invincible voices and tragic heroines who choose their doom with style; Callas is describing something less theatrical and more psychologically modern: the slow damage of misrecognition, of investing in a support system that never existed.

In her world, “a rock” could be a lover, an impresario, an audience, even the instrument of her own voice. Callas lived inside institutions that promise permanence while thriving on volatility. The line reads as a warning from someone who learned that applause is not loyalty, proximity is not protection, and certainty is often a story we tell ourselves to keep performing.

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Callas, Maria. (2026, January 16). It's a terrible thing to go through life thinking that you have a rock on your side when you haven't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-terrible-thing-to-go-through-life-thinking-93557/

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Callas, Maria. "It's a terrible thing to go through life thinking that you have a rock on your side when you haven't." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-terrible-thing-to-go-through-life-thinking-93557/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's a terrible thing to go through life thinking that you have a rock on your side when you haven't." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-terrible-thing-to-go-through-life-thinking-93557/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Maria Callas

Maria Callas (December 2, 1923 - September 16, 1977) was a Musician from USA.

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