"It's a terrible thing wishing that it can be someone else's tragedy"
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A clean little sentence that lands like a bruise: the real horror isnt the tragedy itself, but the reflex to outsource it. Dyer frames the impulse as "wishing", not plotting or causing, which is the point. Hes after the quiet moral rot of spectatorship, the moment you catch yourself hoping disaster happens over there, to them, because over here feels precarious.
Calling it "a terrible thing" is deceptively plain. The language is almost domestic, like a remark made after a bad thought slips out. That understatement makes the judgment sharper: no sermon, no flourish, just a flat recognition that this is what fear turns into when it wants to stay respectable. The phrase "someone else's" is where the guilt concentrates. Its not fate hes condemning; its the ego's bargain with chance. Let my world be spared, even if the bill is paid by another body.
As an artist working in early 18th-century Britain, Dyer would have lived amid widening inequalities and a growing public appetite for spectacle: shipwrecks, executions, street misery rendered into prints, sermons, and conversation. The quote reads like an early critique of that economy of attention, where catastrophe becomes a portable story and empathy is optional.
The intent isnt to romanticize compassion. Its to expose a private, survivable cruelty most people recognize, then force you to sit with the fact that merely wishing harm away from yourself can already be a form of harm.
Calling it "a terrible thing" is deceptively plain. The language is almost domestic, like a remark made after a bad thought slips out. That understatement makes the judgment sharper: no sermon, no flourish, just a flat recognition that this is what fear turns into when it wants to stay respectable. The phrase "someone else's" is where the guilt concentrates. Its not fate hes condemning; its the ego's bargain with chance. Let my world be spared, even if the bill is paid by another body.
As an artist working in early 18th-century Britain, Dyer would have lived amid widening inequalities and a growing public appetite for spectacle: shipwrecks, executions, street misery rendered into prints, sermons, and conversation. The quote reads like an early critique of that economy of attention, where catastrophe becomes a portable story and empathy is optional.
The intent isnt to romanticize compassion. Its to expose a private, survivable cruelty most people recognize, then force you to sit with the fact that merely wishing harm away from yourself can already be a form of harm.
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