"It's a terrible thing wishing that it can be someone else's tragedy"
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Calling it "a terrible thing" is deceptively plain. The language is almost domestic, like a remark made after a bad thought slips out. That understatement makes the judgment sharper: no sermon, no flourish, just a flat recognition that this is what fear turns into when it wants to stay respectable. The phrase "someone else's" is where the guilt concentrates. Its not fate hes condemning; its the ego's bargain with chance. Let my world be spared, even if the bill is paid by another body.
As an artist working in early 18th-century Britain, Dyer would have lived amid widening inequalities and a growing public appetite for spectacle: shipwrecks, executions, street misery rendered into prints, sermons, and conversation. The quote reads like an early critique of that economy of attention, where catastrophe becomes a portable story and empathy is optional.
The intent isnt to romanticize compassion. Its to expose a private, survivable cruelty most people recognize, then force you to sit with the fact that merely wishing harm away from yourself can already be a form of harm.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dyer, John. (2026, January 16). It's a terrible thing wishing that it can be someone else's tragedy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-terrible-thing-wishing-that-it-can-be-92512/
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Dyer, John. "It's a terrible thing wishing that it can be someone else's tragedy." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-terrible-thing-wishing-that-it-can-be-92512/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's a terrible thing wishing that it can be someone else's tragedy." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-a-terrible-thing-wishing-that-it-can-be-92512/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






