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Life's Pleasures Quote by Ellen Burstyn

"It's about avoiding reality through various escape routes that become addictions and lead to Hell. My character is addicted to television, chocolate, coffee, to her dream of her son, which has no basis in reality"

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Ellen Burstyn is speaking about Sara Goldfarb in Requiem for a Dream, a lonely widow who swaps the pain of her life for a chain of comforts that calcify into compulsions. Television, chocolate, coffee, and a fantasy of maternal redemption look harmless, even ordinary, yet they function as soft gateways into the same labyrinth as heroin and amphetamines. The distinction between a habit and an addiction, she suggests, is not moral but practical: an escape becomes an addiction when it replaces the work of facing the world and begins to remake reality to protect the illusion.

Television promises community and recognition, offering Sara the dream of being seen on a game show in her red dress. Chocolate and coffee are small rituals that soothe, the way a mantra does, while weight-loss pills accelerate the illusion that change is underway. Her imagined reconciliation with her son is the most seductive of all because it is love repurposed as fantasy. That dream has no basis in reality precisely because it asks nothing of either person; it is a screen-saver for grief.

Burstyns phrasing about routes that lead to Hell captures the films descent from avoidance to annihilation. Hell here is not fire and pitchforks but isolation, humiliation, and the erosion of self beneath a blizzard of stimuli. Darren Aronofsky and Hubert Selby Jr. frame addiction as a continuum: the culture sanctifies certain appetites while condemning others, yet the mechanism is the same. Repetition replaces relationship, desire outruns truth, and the self fractures into hungry loops.

By emphasizing everyday substances and screens alongside narcotics, Burstyn exposes how modern life makes escape easy and reality negotiable. The tragedy is not merely that these escapes fail; it is that they succeed just long enough to convince the characters that truth can be postponed. When the bill comes due, the return to reality is not a return at all, but a collapse.

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Ellen Burstyn (born December 7, 1932) is a Actress from USA.

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