"It's also selfish because it makes you feel good when you help others. I've been helped by acts of kindness from strangers. That's why we're here, after all, to help others"
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The subtext is permission. If altruism requires sainthood, most of us opt out. Burnett lowers the bar without lowering the stakes: do it because it feels good, because you know what it is to be on the receiving end, because the emotional math works. Her mention of "strangers" matters; it points to a civic version of care, not just family loyalty or friendship reciprocity. The kindness she describes isn't transactional because the giver disappears back into the crowd, leaving only the effect.
Context matters, too: Burnett's public persona is warmth with steel underneath, a comedian who made vulnerability legible on TV. In that tradition, she reframes moral instruction as practical wisdom. "That's why we're here" lands less like theology than like a hard-earned ethic from someone who's watched lives wobble and recover. It's not purity she's selling; it's a sustainable model of decency.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burnett, Carol. (2026, January 16). It's also selfish because it makes you feel good when you help others. I've been helped by acts of kindness from strangers. That's why we're here, after all, to help others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-also-selfish-because-it-makes-you-feel-good-132092/
Chicago Style
Burnett, Carol. "It's also selfish because it makes you feel good when you help others. I've been helped by acts of kindness from strangers. That's why we're here, after all, to help others." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-also-selfish-because-it-makes-you-feel-good-132092/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's also selfish because it makes you feel good when you help others. I've been helped by acts of kindness from strangers. That's why we're here, after all, to help others." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-also-selfish-because-it-makes-you-feel-good-132092/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









