"It's become like an urban myth. I don't know her. I don't know anybody she knows. I was standing there at the party by myself for an hour and then I left. Once I got those auditions, I worked really hard. Nobody did me any favors"
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The details do the heavy lifting. “Standing there at the party by myself for an hour” is vivid, slightly humiliating, and strategically ordinary. It punctures the glamorous mythology of Hollywood rooms where everyone is networking in silk. She frames herself not as a social climber but as someone out of place, even bored, who leaves. That’s a character note: not desperate, not bought in, not indebted.
Then comes the pivot that sounds like a mantra performers learn to repeat because the industry rarely believes it: “Once I got those auditions, I worked really hard.” She concedes the role of access (auditions happen) but reclaims the outcome as labor. “Nobody did me any favors” is both pride and preemptive defense, aimed at an audience primed to suspect shortcuts. The subtext is frustration: talent has to be proven, but legitimacy has to be defended.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sossamon, Shannyn. (n.d.). It's become like an urban myth. I don't know her. I don't know anybody she knows. I was standing there at the party by myself for an hour and then I left. Once I got those auditions, I worked really hard. Nobody did me any favors. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-become-like-an-urban-myth-i-dont-know-her-i-133702/
Chicago Style
Sossamon, Shannyn. "It's become like an urban myth. I don't know her. I don't know anybody she knows. I was standing there at the party by myself for an hour and then I left. Once I got those auditions, I worked really hard. Nobody did me any favors." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-become-like-an-urban-myth-i-dont-know-her-i-133702/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's become like an urban myth. I don't know her. I don't know anybody she knows. I was standing there at the party by myself for an hour and then I left. Once I got those auditions, I worked really hard. Nobody did me any favors." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-become-like-an-urban-myth-i-dont-know-her-i-133702/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




