"It's best to have failure happen early in life. It wakes up the phoenix bird in you, so you rise from the ashes"
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The Phoenix image does heavy lifting. It’s theatrical, a little melodramatic, and perfectly on-brand: show business already speaks in comebacks, reinventions, “eras,” and the myth that suffering polishes talent. Baxter leans into that mythology, but she also sneaks in a sharper subtext: failure is a forced edit. It burns off fantasies, exposes weak routines, and reveals who you are without applause. “Wakes up” is the key verb. Resilience isn’t presented as a trait you either have or don’t; it’s dormant until circumstances make it non-negotiable.
There’s also a subtle power move in choosing the Phoenix over simple grit. Grit implies slogging forward; the Phoenix implies transformation. Early failure, in this view, isn’t just survivable-it’s narratively useful. It gives you a before-and-after, a story you can live inside, which is exactly how performers (and audiences) make meaning: not by avoiding the fall, but by turning it into the first act.
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| Topic | Resilience |
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| Source | Later attribution: Quiet Phoenix: An Introvert's Guide to Rising in Career &... (Prasenjeet Kumar, 2015) modern compilationID: Xt1LCAAAQBAJ
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| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on March 9, 2025 |
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Baxter, Anne. (2026, February 16). It's best to have failure happen early in life. It wakes up the phoenix bird in you, so you rise from the ashes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-best-to-have-failure-happen-early-in-life-it-138017/
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Baxter, Anne. "It's best to have failure happen early in life. It wakes up the phoenix bird in you, so you rise from the ashes." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-best-to-have-failure-happen-early-in-life-it-138017/.
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"It's best to have failure happen early in life. It wakes up the phoenix bird in you, so you rise from the ashes." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-best-to-have-failure-happen-early-in-life-it-138017/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.












