"It's better to hang out with people better than you. Pick out associates whose behavior is better than yours and you'll drift in that direction"
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Buffett smuggles a moral philosophy into a piece of career advice, and it lands because it’s almost aggressively unromantic. No manifestos about “finding yourself,” no TED-talk aura. Just a blunt claim about gravity: your life will drift toward the norms of the people you choose to be around.
The intent is practical, even a little ruthless. “Better than you” isn’t about admiration from afar; it’s about proximity, repetition, and friction. He’s telling you to treat your social circle like an investment portfolio: don’t diversify into chaos, don’t chase charisma, don’t confuse fun with compounding. The line “you’ll drift” is the tell. It assumes behavior change isn’t mostly willpower; it’s osmosis. You become what gets normalized.
The subtext is a quiet rebuke to two American myths: that individual grit is the whole story, and that networking is primarily transactional. Buffett’s version of “associates” is less LinkedIn and more ethics-by-environment. He’s not advising you to collect powerful friends; he’s advising you to borrow their standards.
Context matters: Buffett’s brand is long-term thinking, patience, and incentives. This quote applies that same logic to character. Markets aren’t the only things that compound; habits do, too. He frames self-improvement as choosing a room where the default behavior is already higher than your current baseline, then letting time do the heavy lifting.
The intent is practical, even a little ruthless. “Better than you” isn’t about admiration from afar; it’s about proximity, repetition, and friction. He’s telling you to treat your social circle like an investment portfolio: don’t diversify into chaos, don’t chase charisma, don’t confuse fun with compounding. The line “you’ll drift” is the tell. It assumes behavior change isn’t mostly willpower; it’s osmosis. You become what gets normalized.
The subtext is a quiet rebuke to two American myths: that individual grit is the whole story, and that networking is primarily transactional. Buffett’s version of “associates” is less LinkedIn and more ethics-by-environment. He’s not advising you to collect powerful friends; he’s advising you to borrow their standards.
Context matters: Buffett’s brand is long-term thinking, patience, and incentives. This quote applies that same logic to character. Markets aren’t the only things that compound; habits do, too. He frames self-improvement as choosing a room where the default behavior is already higher than your current baseline, then letting time do the heavy lifting.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
|---|---|
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