"It's better to have done because then you know what the player is going through and you understand the pressure, but then on the other hand I know a lot of people that were good players but not good coaches, and vice versa"
About this Quote
Then Forget undercuts the myth he’s just invoked. “On the other hand” is doing real work: it’s the quiet dismantling of the common fan assumption that greatness automatically translates into leadership. The subtext is almost managerial. Coaching isn’t only technique; it’s communication, pedagogy, temperament, and an ability to translate instinct into teachable steps. Some elite athletes are so gifted they can’t explain their own decision-making. Others, wired for solitary competition, struggle with the patience and repetition required to guide someone else.
Context matters: Forget isn’t speaking as a hot-take pundit but as someone who moved from high-level playing into the institutional side of the sport, where you constantly arbitrate between authority and understanding. The quote functions as a credential check and a humility check at once. It validates player experience without turning it into a gatekeeping requirement, making room for the “vice versa”: the brilliant teacher who never had the spotlight, yet knows how to prepare someone to stand in it.
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| Topic | Coaching |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Forget, Guy. (2026, January 15). It's better to have done because then you know what the player is going through and you understand the pressure, but then on the other hand I know a lot of people that were good players but not good coaches, and vice versa. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-better-to-have-done-because-then-you-know-132858/
Chicago Style
Forget, Guy. "It's better to have done because then you know what the player is going through and you understand the pressure, but then on the other hand I know a lot of people that were good players but not good coaches, and vice versa." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-better-to-have-done-because-then-you-know-132858/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's better to have done because then you know what the player is going through and you understand the pressure, but then on the other hand I know a lot of people that were good players but not good coaches, and vice versa." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-better-to-have-done-because-then-you-know-132858/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.


