"It's better to stand by someone's side than by yourself"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “Stand by someone’s side” is physical, even martial. It implies shared risk, shared posture, a mutual facing-forward. London wrote obsessively about bodies under strain - men and dogs and drifters pushed to their limits - so “standing” reads as endurance. The alternative isn’t just being alone; it’s being alone with yourself, which is its own kind of hostile terrain. Self-reliance, the celebrated American virtue, gets quietly indicted here as insufficient, even delusional.
Subtextually, it also smuggles in a radical ethic: solidarity beats individualism. London, shaped by labor politics and class resentment, understood that isolation is how systems win. When people are atomized, they can be managed, underpaid, and discarded. Side-by-side is not only comfort; it’s leverage.
Context sharpens the edge. London lived fast and wrote from the friction between adventure myth and economic reality. His characters often discover that the most “natural” law isn’t the lone wolf’s triumph, but the pack’s necessity. The line works because it refuses to glamorize loneliness while admitting, plainly, that together is stronger.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
London, Jack. (n.d.). It's better to stand by someone's side than by yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-better-to-stand-by-someones-side-than-by-173110/
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London, Jack. "It's better to stand by someone's side than by yourself." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-better-to-stand-by-someones-side-than-by-173110/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's better to stand by someone's side than by yourself." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-better-to-stand-by-someones-side-than-by-173110/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.






