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Parenting & Family Quote by David Thewlis

"It's certainly not easy having to spend a lot of time apart, and having a five-year-old child who's got to be at school. So we need to learn how to organize our time really well because for months we will be in two different countries"

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Domestic logistics rarely sound cinematic, which is exactly why David Thewlis's candor lands. An actor talking about love isn’t unusual; an actor talking about school schedules, borders, and months-long separation is. The intent here is quietly corrective: to drain the glamour from the “international career” narrative and replace it with the unsexy truth that parenting is an immovable object and work is a relentless force. He’s not selling an image. He’s negotiating a calendar.

Thewlis frames distance as a problem to be managed, not a tragedy to be performed. That choice matters. “Not easy” is understated, almost British in its restraint, but the repetition of concrete constraints - “five-year-old,” “school,” “months,” “two different countries” - does the emotional work without melodrama. The subtext is a small protest against the assumption that famous families float above ordinary pressures. Even with resources, you can’t buy your way out of a child needing to be in class at 8:30.

There’s also a cultural context embedded in the geography: globalized creative labor demands mobility, while modern parenting demands presence. Thewlis’s “learn how to organize our time really well” reads less like self-help than survival strategy, the language of co-parenting as project management. It’s intimacy translated into logistics: love expressed as planning, commitment measured in who gets on which flight, and when.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thewlis, David. (2026, January 17). It's certainly not easy having to spend a lot of time apart, and having a five-year-old child who's got to be at school. So we need to learn how to organize our time really well because for months we will be in two different countries. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-certainly-not-easy-having-to-spend-a-lot-of-49156/

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Thewlis, David. "It's certainly not easy having to spend a lot of time apart, and having a five-year-old child who's got to be at school. So we need to learn how to organize our time really well because for months we will be in two different countries." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-certainly-not-easy-having-to-spend-a-lot-of-49156/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's certainly not easy having to spend a lot of time apart, and having a five-year-old child who's got to be at school. So we need to learn how to organize our time really well because for months we will be in two different countries." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-certainly-not-easy-having-to-spend-a-lot-of-49156/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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David Thewlis

David Thewlis (born March 20, 1963) is a Actor from United Kingdom.

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