"It's certainly not easy having to spend a lot of time apart, and having a five-year-old child who's got to be at school. So we need to learn how to organize our time really well because for months we will be in two different countries"
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Thewlis frames distance as a problem to be managed, not a tragedy to be performed. That choice matters. “Not easy” is understated, almost British in its restraint, but the repetition of concrete constraints - “five-year-old,” “school,” “months,” “two different countries” - does the emotional work without melodrama. The subtext is a small protest against the assumption that famous families float above ordinary pressures. Even with resources, you can’t buy your way out of a child needing to be in class at 8:30.
There’s also a cultural context embedded in the geography: globalized creative labor demands mobility, while modern parenting demands presence. Thewlis’s “learn how to organize our time really well” reads less like self-help than survival strategy, the language of co-parenting as project management. It’s intimacy translated into logistics: love expressed as planning, commitment measured in who gets on which flight, and when.
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| Topic | Long-Distance Relationship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thewlis, David. (2026, January 17). It's certainly not easy having to spend a lot of time apart, and having a five-year-old child who's got to be at school. So we need to learn how to organize our time really well because for months we will be in two different countries. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-certainly-not-easy-having-to-spend-a-lot-of-49156/
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Thewlis, David. "It's certainly not easy having to spend a lot of time apart, and having a five-year-old child who's got to be at school. So we need to learn how to organize our time really well because for months we will be in two different countries." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-certainly-not-easy-having-to-spend-a-lot-of-49156/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's certainly not easy having to spend a lot of time apart, and having a five-year-old child who's got to be at school. So we need to learn how to organize our time really well because for months we will be in two different countries." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-certainly-not-easy-having-to-spend-a-lot-of-49156/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

