"It's depressing and scary, but he needs to know the world around him because he's fourteen now and in two years he's going to drive. He needs to know what goes on out in the world. I'm not going to always be there"
About this Quote
The line “It’s depressing and scary” doesn’t romanticize vigilance. It admits that awareness comes with a psychic cost, that knowing “what goes on” is not a neutral civic lesson but an emotional burden you hand to someone you still want to keep small. Gertz’s intent is pragmatic, almost unsentimental: if the world is going to reach your child anyway, you’d rather be the one to introduce it, on your terms, while you still have leverage.
The real subtext lands in the final sentence: “I’m not going to always be there.” That’s the quiet terror underneath a lot of modern parenting, sharpened by a culture that sells safety as a lifestyle product while constantly broadcasting catastrophe. She’s not just talking about mortality; she’s talking about the limits of supervision, the inevitability of unmonitored choices, the fact that a driver’s license is a proxy for risk.
Coming from an actress, it also echoes a media-saturated reality: the “world around him” arrives through screens as much as streets. The quote argues for preparation over denial, even when preparation feels like surrender.
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| Topic | Son |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gertz, Jami. (2026, January 17). It's depressing and scary, but he needs to know the world around him because he's fourteen now and in two years he's going to drive. He needs to know what goes on out in the world. I'm not going to always be there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-depressing-and-scary-but-he-needs-to-know-the-56035/
Chicago Style
Gertz, Jami. "It's depressing and scary, but he needs to know the world around him because he's fourteen now and in two years he's going to drive. He needs to know what goes on out in the world. I'm not going to always be there." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-depressing-and-scary-but-he-needs-to-know-the-56035/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's depressing and scary, but he needs to know the world around him because he's fourteen now and in two years he's going to drive. He needs to know what goes on out in the world. I'm not going to always be there." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-depressing-and-scary-but-he-needs-to-know-the-56035/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.








