"It's fascinating for us women to begin looking at our lives in five-year plans. It really does help you keep on track. If that's too hard, start with a two-year plan"
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The intent is practical, almost breezily so: pick goals, build a timeline, measure progress. That light touch matters. Coming from an actress whose public persona has often blended warmth with assertiveness, the advice avoids the scolding tone of self-help and instead feels like a backstage tip: here’s how you stay in the game. The subtext is that women are allowed to want continuity, not just survival - to plan for careers, money, education, creative work, and pleasure with the same legitimacy men are granted by default.
The second sentence is the real tell: “If that’s too hard, start with a two-year plan.” It anticipates the friction - unstable work, family demands, the confidence gap, the learned habit of minimizing one’s own future - and offers a compassionate off-ramp that still preserves agency. Scale the horizon, don’t abandon it.
Contextually, Thomas comes out of a generation that watched second-wave feminism fight for access and credibility. This isn’t a manifesto; it’s a coping strategy turned cultural critique: if the world won’t hand you a clean path, draw one anyway, and adjust the ruler to fit your reality.
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"It's fascinating for us women to begin looking at our lives in five-year plans. It really does help you keep on track. If that's too hard, start with a two-year plan." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-fascinating-for-us-women-to-begin-looking-at-93578/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.


