"It's finding those nonsensical pieces of conversation that we all do all the time. We do all the time. When we're talking on the telephone, there are arguments with people who agree when they both think that they disagree"
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The telephone detail matters. Phone conversations strip away faces, gestures, and timing cues, so people overcompensate. They interrupt, restate, escalate. Misunderstanding becomes a kind of sport. Levinson’s sharpest observation is the paradox: “arguments with people who agree when they both think that they disagree.” That’s not just miscommunication; it’s ego management. We argue to prove we’re listening, to defend a self-image, to avoid conceding control of the narrative. Agreement can feel like surrender if it arrives in the “wrong” phrasing or from the “wrong” person.
As a director associated with talk-heavy, naturalistic American films, Levinson is essentially defending a style: dialogue that captures social choreography, not just plot. The subtext is democratic and slightly bleak: most conflict isn’t ideological, it’s procedural. We don’t fight over what we believe; we fight over who gets to sound right while believing it.
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Levinson, Barry. (2026, January 17). It's finding those nonsensical pieces of conversation that we all do all the time. We do all the time. When we're talking on the telephone, there are arguments with people who agree when they both think that they disagree. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-finding-those-nonsensical-pieces-of-41266/
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Levinson, Barry. "It's finding those nonsensical pieces of conversation that we all do all the time. We do all the time. When we're talking on the telephone, there are arguments with people who agree when they both think that they disagree." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-finding-those-nonsensical-pieces-of-41266/.
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"It's finding those nonsensical pieces of conversation that we all do all the time. We do all the time. When we're talking on the telephone, there are arguments with people who agree when they both think that they disagree." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-finding-those-nonsensical-pieces-of-41266/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.








