"It's going to seem idiotic to say this, but I think that at a given moment we all need a place to ourselves where we can refuge ourselves and cut ourselves off from the world"
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Her phrasing is clumsy on purpose, or at least honest about its own clumsiness: “refuge ourselves,” “cut ourselves off.” It’s not the polished self-care slogan of a wellness influencer; it’s a working person describing a survival mechanism. The repetition of “ourselves” underlines a tension between a public-facing body and a private interior life. If your image is your job, the self is both product and refuge. You’re selling access while craving withdrawal.
“Place to ourselves” reads literally (a room, a home, a closed door) and psychologically (a boundary). The word “refuge” carries an almost wartime charge, turning ordinary solitude into shelter from a hostile environment. In that subtext, “the world” isn’t nature or community; it’s the grinding apparatus of attention, commentary, and expectation. Jovovich’s intent isn’t to romanticize loneliness. It’s to normalize strategic disappearance as maintenance - a way to reclaim agency when your identity is constantly being consumed.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jovovich, Milla. (2026, January 16). It's going to seem idiotic to say this, but I think that at a given moment we all need a place to ourselves where we can refuge ourselves and cut ourselves off from the world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-going-to-seem-idiotic-to-say-this-but-i-think-97497/
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Jovovich, Milla. "It's going to seem idiotic to say this, but I think that at a given moment we all need a place to ourselves where we can refuge ourselves and cut ourselves off from the world." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-going-to-seem-idiotic-to-say-this-but-i-think-97497/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's going to seem idiotic to say this, but I think that at a given moment we all need a place to ourselves where we can refuge ourselves and cut ourselves off from the world." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-going-to-seem-idiotic-to-say-this-but-i-think-97497/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.






