"It's hard either way, at home or on the bus, I think the hardest thing probably for me is going one second from being mom to right out on the stage and having to be that person too. It's hard to switch gears"
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The bus and the home are telling, too. Both are domestic spaces, just dressed in different wallpaper. The tour bus is a rolling version of home life - routines, mess, exhaustion - but it still has the machinery of performance waiting on the other side of the door. Womack rejects the glamour narrative by putting "mom" and "on the stage" in the same breath, as if they are two jobs on the same shift. The subtext is that neither role is fully compatible with the other, yet both demand total presence. A child wants you unfiltered; an audience wants you amplified.
"Having to be that person too" is the quietest dagger. "That person" is not a lie, exactly, but it is curated: the confident, emotionally legible version of herself that a show requires. Her point isn't that performance is fake; it's that it is costly. Switching gears isn't just changing clothes. It's moving from intimate responsibility to public command, from being needed to being watched, and doing it on cue. In country music, where authenticity is the brand, that pivot becomes the real work.
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Womack, Lee Ann. (2026, January 15). It's hard either way, at home or on the bus, I think the hardest thing probably for me is going one second from being mom to right out on the stage and having to be that person too. It's hard to switch gears. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-either-way-at-home-or-on-the-bus-i-think-142713/
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Womack, Lee Ann. "It's hard either way, at home or on the bus, I think the hardest thing probably for me is going one second from being mom to right out on the stage and having to be that person too. It's hard to switch gears." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-either-way-at-home-or-on-the-bus-i-think-142713/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's hard either way, at home or on the bus, I think the hardest thing probably for me is going one second from being mom to right out on the stage and having to be that person too. It's hard to switch gears." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-either-way-at-home-or-on-the-bus-i-think-142713/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.





