"It's hard for anybody who's been with me not to feel starved for affection when I'm making love to my ideas. Maybe it's not meant for me to settle down and be married"
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The subtext is a preemptive absolution. By casting himself as someone “not meant…to settle down,” he turns a pattern (emotional unavailability, obsessive focus, the self-consuming rush of creation) into destiny. That move is seductive because it sounds honest, even noble: the artist as instrument, the mind as demanding lover. It’s also a dodge, a way to rebrand the collateral damage of ambition as inevitability.
Context matters: Carrey’s persona has long been manic intensity packaged as charm, and off-screen he’s spoken about depression and the strain of performance. In that light, “ideas” aren’t just projects; they’re survival strategies, places to pour feeling when intimacy requires steadiness. The quote works because it’s confession and comedy fused: he makes you laugh at the metaphor, then makes you realize he’s describing a real cost.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Carrey, Jim. (n.d.). It's hard for anybody who's been with me not to feel starved for affection when I'm making love to my ideas. Maybe it's not meant for me to settle down and be married. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-anybody-whos-been-with-me-not-to-7763/
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Carrey, Jim. "It's hard for anybody who's been with me not to feel starved for affection when I'm making love to my ideas. Maybe it's not meant for me to settle down and be married." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-anybody-whos-been-with-me-not-to-7763/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's hard for anybody who's been with me not to feel starved for affection when I'm making love to my ideas. Maybe it's not meant for me to settle down and be married." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-anybody-whos-been-with-me-not-to-7763/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








