"It's hard for people to see you one way, but you're really the other way, so it's kind of like, 'Who am I, who are you?' Sometimes, I confuse even myself"
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The quote’s engine is second-person pressure. “People” isn’t just an audience; it’s an invisible casting department that keeps reassigning her role. When she flips to “Who am I, who are you?” she exposes the weird intimacy of celebrity: strangers project, judge, and “know” you, but their certainty is built from fragments. The question isn’t rhetorical; it’s a boundary check. If your identity is constantly interpreted by others, the “you” in your life starts to feel like a collaborator you never hired.
“Sometimes, I confuse even myself” lands as the real reveal. It’s not a plea for pity, it’s an admission of brand bleed-through: perform a persona long enough and it stops feeling like a mask and starts feeling like your face. In the reality TV era Polizzi came up in, authenticity is both the product and the trap. You’re asked to be “real” on command, then punished when you change. The quote captures that cultural contradiction with blunt, unpolished honesty.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Polizzi, Nicole. (n.d.). It's hard for people to see you one way, but you're really the other way, so it's kind of like, 'Who am I, who are you?' Sometimes, I confuse even myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-people-to-see-you-one-way-but-youre-13013/
Chicago Style
Polizzi, Nicole. "It's hard for people to see you one way, but you're really the other way, so it's kind of like, 'Who am I, who are you?' Sometimes, I confuse even myself." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-people-to-see-you-one-way-but-youre-13013/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's hard for people to see you one way, but you're really the other way, so it's kind of like, 'Who am I, who are you?' Sometimes, I confuse even myself." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-people-to-see-you-one-way-but-youre-13013/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











