"It's hard for women to talk about these things, and for the doctors to really talk about it too, and to even have the knowledge of what's going on. That's why I'm doing this and urging women to speak out and talk to their doctors frankly"
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The sharpest turn is her quiet indictment of the system: it’s not only hard for women to talk, it’s hard “for the doctors to really talk about it too,” and even to “have the knowledge.” That’s not squeamishness; it’s structural neglect. Women’s pain and symptoms have a long history of being minimized, misread, or under-researched, and Shepherd frames that gap as a collective failure rather than an individual embarrassment.
As an actress, she’s also leveraging a particular kind of authority: not expertise, but visibility. “That’s why I’m doing this” is activism in the register of mainstream culture, where testimony can pry open conversations that data alone hasn’t forced into the exam room. Her insistence on speaking “frankly” is strategic: she’s not asking for sympathy, she’s demanding better care, and reminding women that candor is not oversharing when the stakes are diagnosis, treatment, and dignity.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shepherd, Cybill. (2026, January 17). It's hard for women to talk about these things, and for the doctors to really talk about it too, and to even have the knowledge of what's going on. That's why I'm doing this and urging women to speak out and talk to their doctors frankly. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-women-to-talk-about-these-things-and-54483/
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Shepherd, Cybill. "It's hard for women to talk about these things, and for the doctors to really talk about it too, and to even have the knowledge of what's going on. That's why I'm doing this and urging women to speak out and talk to their doctors frankly." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-women-to-talk-about-these-things-and-54483/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's hard for women to talk about these things, and for the doctors to really talk about it too, and to even have the knowledge of what's going on. That's why I'm doing this and urging women to speak out and talk to their doctors frankly." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-for-women-to-talk-about-these-things-and-54483/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





