"It's hard, or you wouldn't like it. A lot of coaches really don't like what they're doing"
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Then he turns the blade toward leadership. “A lot of coaches really don’t like what they’re doing” is a quiet indictment of the sports-industrial machine: the myth that passion automatically comes with authority, and the reality that coaching can become a job of managing egos, protecting a brand, feeding a schedule, and living with relentless judgment. The subtext is that resentment leaks. When coaches don’t actually like the daily labor - film, repetition, correction, patience - they compensate with control, cynicism, or cruelty, and athletes feel it immediately.
Context matters: Largent played in an era that prized toughness without today’s wellness vocabulary, yet his point anticipates a modern conversation about burnout and authenticity. He’s arguing for honest alignment: choose hard things you genuinely value, or you’ll become the person enforcing hardship on others just to justify your own discomfort. In two blunt lines, he reframes “hard” as a litmus test for love - and coaching as the place where unloved hard turns toxic.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Largent, Steve. (2026, January 17). It's hard, or you wouldn't like it. A lot of coaches really don't like what they're doing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-or-you-wouldnt-like-it-a-lot-of-coaches-82175/
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Largent, Steve. "It's hard, or you wouldn't like it. A lot of coaches really don't like what they're doing." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-or-you-wouldnt-like-it-a-lot-of-coaches-82175/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's hard, or you wouldn't like it. A lot of coaches really don't like what they're doing." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-or-you-wouldnt-like-it-a-lot-of-coaches-82175/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.




