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"It's hard to win when you always lose"

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Tom Waits delivers a line that sounds like a joke until you realize it’s also a diagnosis. "It’s hard to win when you always lose" is a tautology on purpose: the logic is circular because the life it describes is circular. It captures the trap of people who aren’t merely unlucky but stuck in a system - personal, economic, addictive, romantic - where loss becomes habit, then identity. Once you’re tagged as the loser, every new attempt gets interpreted through that grime-streaked lens, including by you.

Waits’ intent isn’t motivational; it’s forensic. He’s not urging you to try harder so you can finally "win". He’s pointing at the absurdity of a culture that sells winning as a simple choice while ignoring how repetitive defeat rewires expectations. The humor is dry and fatalistic: yes, of course it’s hard to win when you always lose. That’s the point. The line mocks the self-help grammar of triumph by exposing how little those slogans understand about entropy, bad breaks, and the slow erosion of confidence.

Context matters because Waits has built a career on barroom epics and corner-table characters: drifters, burnouts, romantics with empty pockets. In that world, "winning" isn’t a trophy; it’s dignity, rent, one clean morning. The subtext is compassion without sentimentality: losing isn’t a moral failure, but it does stack the deck, and it’s brutal how quickly the scoreboard becomes your story.

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Tom Waits (born December 7, 1949) is a Musician from USA.

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