"It's hard when your father's the coach. Sometimes you don't know where one leaves off and the other begins"
About this Quote
The line "Sometimes you don't know where one leaves off and the other begins" is doing the heavy lifting. It captures role confusion with the plain language of a player, not a therapist. The subtext is about identity: if Dad is always Coach, the son is always Talent, always Project. Praise becomes complicated. Criticism stings more because it can feel like rejection, even when its supposedly "just basketball". And the athlete, even a prodigy like Maravich, can start performing not only for wins but for permission to be a son.
Context sharpens it. Maravich was coached by his father, Press Maravich, a demanding, strategic mind who shaped Pete's famously creative game. Their relationship was productive and combustible, feeding the myth of "Pistol Pete" while also crowding out normal adolescence. The quote reads as a rare moment of public vulnerability from a sports culture that prefers tidy narratives: hard father, disciplined son, success. Maravich punctures that script. He hints that the cost of greatness can be emotional ambiguity, the kind that follows you off the court because you never got to find out who you were when no one was keeping score.
Quote Details
| Topic | Father |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Maravich, Pete. (2026, January 16). It's hard when your father's the coach. Sometimes you don't know where one leaves off and the other begins. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-when-your-fathers-the-coach-sometimes-135760/
Chicago Style
Maravich, Pete. "It's hard when your father's the coach. Sometimes you don't know where one leaves off and the other begins." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-when-your-fathers-the-coach-sometimes-135760/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's hard when your father's the coach. Sometimes you don't know where one leaves off and the other begins." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-hard-when-your-fathers-the-coach-sometimes-135760/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.





