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Daily Inspiration Quote by Caroline Dhavernas

"It's heartbreaking but we're trying to get over it. As disappointed as we were, I think that somehow you have to find a way to think that it happened for a reason"

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Grief rarely arrives with clean edges, and Dhavernas captures the modern impulse to sand it down into something livable. The first sentence stays stubbornly plain: “It’s heartbreaking but we’re trying to get over it.” No poetry, no heroic framing, just the exhausted grammar of people forced to keep moving. The “we” matters: this isn’t a solitary performance of sadness but a shared management problem, the kind of emotional logistics that happens after a loss, a public setback, a canceled project, a breakup that ripples through a whole circle.

Then comes the pivot our culture practically demands: disappointment must be converted into meaning. “As disappointed as we were” acknowledges the gap between expectation and reality; it’s the language of someone who had a stake in an outcome and is now negotiating the aftermath. The phrase “somehow you have to find a way” is the tell. It’s not certainty. It’s necessity. She’s describing meaning-making as a coping strategy, not a revelation.

“It happened for a reason” is the most loaded line because it’s both comfort and self-defense. It borrows the shape of faith without requiring faith, a secular mantra that keeps pain from feeling random and therefore unbearable. The subtext is gentle but pragmatic: we may never know the reason, but we need a story that lets us keep functioning. In an entertainment context, it also reads like reputational triage - acknowledging hurt while signaling resilience, professionalism, and forward motion. The sentence doesn’t solve grief; it gives it a script.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dhavernas, Caroline. (2026, January 15). It's heartbreaking but we're trying to get over it. As disappointed as we were, I think that somehow you have to find a way to think that it happened for a reason. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-heartbreaking-but-were-trying-to-get-over-it-140052/

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Dhavernas, Caroline. "It's heartbreaking but we're trying to get over it. As disappointed as we were, I think that somehow you have to find a way to think that it happened for a reason." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-heartbreaking-but-were-trying-to-get-over-it-140052/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's heartbreaking but we're trying to get over it. As disappointed as we were, I think that somehow you have to find a way to think that it happened for a reason." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-heartbreaking-but-were-trying-to-get-over-it-140052/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Caroline Dhavernas (born May 15, 1978) is a Actress from Canada.

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