"It's important for moms to have alone time. However, that's the first thing that goes on a busy day. Fortunately for me, because of my job, I have to find the time to do it. At least that's the way my mind sees it"
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The cleverness is in how she uses her job as both privilege and permission. “Because of my job, I have to find the time” reframes personal need as professional obligation. It’s a socially acceptable excuse in a culture that still expects mothers to justify any moment not spent producing, caretaking, or optimizing. Even for someone with money, help, and access, she implies the guilt reflex is still there, so she recruits work to overrule it.
“At least that’s the way my mind sees it” is the tell: she’s exposing the mental gymnastics. The line reads like a wink at her own coping mechanism, an admission that the story we tell ourselves (“I have to”) can be the only way to protect a boundary. Coming from a supermodel whose brand helped define “having it all,” the subtext is quietly corrective: balance isn’t a moral achievement. It’s negotiated, sometimes irrationally, sometimes by outsourcing the justification to whatever sounds least selfish.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Crawford, Cindy. (2026, January 17). It's important for moms to have alone time. However, that's the first thing that goes on a busy day. Fortunately for me, because of my job, I have to find the time to do it. At least that's the way my mind sees it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-for-moms-to-have-alone-time-however-48131/
Chicago Style
Crawford, Cindy. "It's important for moms to have alone time. However, that's the first thing that goes on a busy day. Fortunately for me, because of my job, I have to find the time to do it. At least that's the way my mind sees it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-for-moms-to-have-alone-time-however-48131/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's important for moms to have alone time. However, that's the first thing that goes on a busy day. Fortunately for me, because of my job, I have to find the time to do it. At least that's the way my mind sees it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-for-moms-to-have-alone-time-however-48131/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





