"It's important to ask yourself, How am I useful to others? What do people want from me? That may very well reveal what you are here for"
About this Quote
The intent is diagnostic. Hillman’s question is a probe for vocation in its older sense: a calling that comes from outside you, not just within. “How am I useful?” is blunt, almost unromantic, and that’s the point. It forces a confrontation with the ways our lives are already being read by others. People’s requests, expectations, and even their projections become data. He’s implying that identity isn’t a solitary essence; it’s partly an ecology of transactions, needs, and recognitions.
The subtext is also a warning. “What do people want from me?” can expose the role you’re slipping into by habit: caretaker, fixer, entertainer, scapegoat. Hillman doesn’t guarantee that what others want is healthy or fair; he suggests it’s revealing. The question tests where your energy reliably goes, what capacities others sense in you, and what patterns you might be unconsciously serving.
Contextually, it’s classic Hillman: soul is not a self-improvement project but a relationship with the world. Purpose, here, isn’t manufactured by willpower. It’s traced in the footprints you’re already leaving in other people’s lives.
Quote Details
| Topic | Meaning of Life |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Hillman, James. (2026, January 17). It's important to ask yourself, How am I useful to others? What do people want from me? That may very well reveal what you are here for. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-to-ask-yourself-how-am-i-useful-to-73815/
Chicago Style
Hillman, James. "It's important to ask yourself, How am I useful to others? What do people want from me? That may very well reveal what you are here for." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-to-ask-yourself-how-am-i-useful-to-73815/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's important to ask yourself, How am I useful to others? What do people want from me? That may very well reveal what you are here for." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-important-to-ask-yourself-how-am-i-useful-to-73815/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










