"It's kind of a shame that it's even an issue. Not being gay, I can't fully appreciate how complicated that is. In the article, the interviewer asked me, and I said that if I were, I would just say it"
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The real tell is the fantasy of simplicity: "if I were, I would just say it". It's the straight ally version of bootstraps politics, applied to identity. The subtext is that the closet is largely a matter of personal courage, not structural risk. In entertainment - especially for an actor whose career peaked in an era when leading-men branding was tightly policed - "just say it" ignores how casting, tabloid economies, studio power, fan expectations, and even safety can make "saying it" costly in ways straight people rarely have to calculate.
Context matters: this reads like a response shaped by the press cycle itself, where the worst possible outcome is looking evasive. Wolf wants to be seen as tolerant without being recruited into the larger critique of Hollywood's incentives. The statement reaches for decency, but it reveals a lingering cultural myth: that visibility is only a moral choice, not also a negotiation with an industry built to reward ambiguity and punish certain truths.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wolf, Scott. (2026, January 16). It's kind of a shame that it's even an issue. Not being gay, I can't fully appreciate how complicated that is. In the article, the interviewer asked me, and I said that if I were, I would just say it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-kind-of-a-shame-that-its-even-an-issue-not-113372/
Chicago Style
Wolf, Scott. "It's kind of a shame that it's even an issue. Not being gay, I can't fully appreciate how complicated that is. In the article, the interviewer asked me, and I said that if I were, I would just say it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-kind-of-a-shame-that-its-even-an-issue-not-113372/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's kind of a shame that it's even an issue. Not being gay, I can't fully appreciate how complicated that is. In the article, the interviewer asked me, and I said that if I were, I would just say it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-kind-of-a-shame-that-its-even-an-issue-not-113372/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

