"It's kinda nice to be remembered by your peers and your fans, because you can achieve a lot of success and be a creep too! But we try to be nice, just normal people"
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The “kinda nice” opener is classic Carpenter-era modesty, but also a hedge. By softening the sentiment, she avoids the trap of sounding hungry for validation, a near-mandatory posture for women in 1970s pop: grateful, approachable, unthreatening. Then comes the pivot to “we,” a band-and-brand pronoun that spreads responsibility and lowers the spotlight. “We try to be nice” isn’t a manifesto; it’s a maintenance routine, the daily labor of staying human inside a machine that rewards ego.
The subtext is a quiet critique of celebrity culture before it had today’s vocabulary for parasocial relationships and “problematic” icons. Carpenter is mapping the gap between public affection and private decency, and she’s doing it in plain language, as if decency should be the baseline rather than part of the performance. “Just normal people” isn’t naïveté; it’s an aspiration stated like a boundary. In an industry that sells mystique, she’s insisting that kindness and ordinariness are the real flex.
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Carpenter, Karen. (2026, January 17). It's kinda nice to be remembered by your peers and your fans, because you can achieve a lot of success and be a creep too! But we try to be nice, just normal people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-kinda-nice-to-be-remembered-by-your-peers-and-61838/
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Carpenter, Karen. "It's kinda nice to be remembered by your peers and your fans, because you can achieve a lot of success and be a creep too! But we try to be nice, just normal people." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-kinda-nice-to-be-remembered-by-your-peers-and-61838/.
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"It's kinda nice to be remembered by your peers and your fans, because you can achieve a lot of success and be a creep too! But we try to be nice, just normal people." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-kinda-nice-to-be-remembered-by-your-peers-and-61838/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.






