"It's like the riddle of the Sphinx... why are there so many great unmarried women, and no great unmarried men?"
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Coming from Sarah Jessica Parker, it lands with the bright, knowing cadence of Sex and the City-era feminism: urbane, funny, a little exasperated. “Great unmarried women” is a phrase we recognize instantly because culture keeps inventorying them as exceptions, cautionary tales, or curiosities. “No great unmarried men” is the trapdoor. Male greatness has long been narrated as self-contained - genius, power, artistry - with domestic life treated as optional garnish. Women’s greatness, by contrast, gets routed through relational status: if she’s unmarried, it becomes part of the headline, a clue we’re invited to interpret.
The subtext isn’t that men don’t exist who are brilliant and single; it’s that we don’t file them that way. Bachelorhood reads as freedom, focus, even allure. For women, it’s too often framed as a problem to solve, a failure to be chosen, or an overinvestment in ambition. Parker’s line needles the moral accounting behind those frames: the same independence that crowns a man “dedicated” can brand a woman “difficult.”
By posing it as a riddle, she also mocks the solemnity with which society treats women’s marital status. The real enigma isn’t women; it’s the stories we insist on telling about them.
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Parker, Sarah Jessica. (2026, January 15). It's like the riddle of the Sphinx... why are there so many great unmarried women, and no great unmarried men? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-like-the-riddle-of-the-sphinx-why-are-there-65280/
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Parker, Sarah Jessica. "It's like the riddle of the Sphinx... why are there so many great unmarried women, and no great unmarried men?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-like-the-riddle-of-the-sphinx-why-are-there-65280/.
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"It's like the riddle of the Sphinx... why are there so many great unmarried women, and no great unmarried men?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-like-the-riddle-of-the-sphinx-why-are-there-65280/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









