"It's my belief we developed language because of our deep inner need to complain"
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The specific intent is deflation. Tomlin takes an origin-story that tends to sound noble and gives it a petty, human engine. The humor is in the mismatch between "developed language" (grand, anthropological) and "need to complain" (domestic, nagging, deliciously small). That contrast does double duty: it gets the laugh, and it also exposes how much of modern life is paperwork for our grievances. Customer service scripts, relationship "talks", political commentary, even social media - they're sophisticated dialects of dissatisfaction.
The subtext isn't that complaining is bad. It's that complaining is binding. To complain you have to imagine alternatives, assign responsibility, recruit an audience, and negotiate norms. Grievance is social glue: it signals standards ("this shouldn't be happening") and invites solidarity ("can you believe this?").
Context matters, too. Tomlin's comedy often skewers institutions and everyday absurdities, especially from women's vantage points where "complaining" gets dismissed as nagging. Here, she reclaims it as a motor of culture. If language began as a protest, the punchline is that we're still evolving it - one irritated sentence at a time.
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Tomlin, Lily. "It's my belief we developed language because of our deep inner need to complain." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-my-belief-we-developed-language-because-of-26267/.
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"It's my belief we developed language because of our deep inner need to complain." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-my-belief-we-developed-language-because-of-26267/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.




