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Daily Inspiration Quote by Alyssa Milano

"It's nice to be important, but it's important to always be nice"

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Alyssa Milano’s line lands like a tidy piece of backstage wisdom, the kind you can imagine passed between a call time and a red-carpet step-and-repeat. Its genius is how it borrows the cadence of a truism while quietly indicting the hierarchy it pretends to flatter. By putting “important” first, it acknowledges the cultural obsession with status - the airtime, the billing, the follower counts - then flips the value system in the second clause. The pivot isn’t subtle; it’s moral judo.

The intent feels practical, almost survivalist: in an industry built on being seen, “importance” is temporary and often outsourced to publicists, trends, and algorithms. “Always be nice” is framed not as saintliness but as a form of agency. Niceness becomes the one thing you can control when everything else - roles, headlines, public approval - is contingent.

There’s subtext, too, about reputations that stick. In Hollywood (and online), power is relational: assistants become executives; fan communities become gatekeepers; yesterday’s “nobody” might be tomorrow’s decision-maker. The quote politely warns that cruelty is a luxury with a short shelf life.

Milano’s broader public persona - actress turned outspoken activist - gives the line added context. It reads as a rebuttal to celebrity entitlement and a soft argument for using visibility without weaponizing it. Not “be humble” in the abstract, but: don’t let the spotlight make you unbearable.

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Milano, Alyssa. (2026, January 17). It's nice to be important, but it's important to always be nice. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-nice-to-be-important-but-its-important-to-40975/

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Milano, Alyssa. "It's nice to be important, but it's important to always be nice." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-nice-to-be-important-but-its-important-to-40975/.

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"It's nice to be important, but it's important to always be nice." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-nice-to-be-important-but-its-important-to-40975/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Alyssa Milano (born December 19, 1972) is a Actress from USA.

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