"It's nice to have some distance with your family. As long as you're closer to them by love"
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The key trick is his pivot on “closer.” He concedes the reality of physical or lifestyle separation (“some distance”), then insists on a different metric: love as the true yardstick. It’s not just sentimental; it’s defensive. The subtext reads like a response to the way celebrity families are audited by the public: Who’s spending holidays where? Who’s seen with whom? If you’re not photographed as a unit, the culture treats it like a crack in the façade. Martinez’s line preemptively rebukes that logic.
Contextually, it also echoes a broader shift in how people talk about boundaries. For a lot of adults, especially those juggling co-parenting, transnational lives, or complicated family histories, distance can be the condition of peace. His phrasing makes that palatable by keeping “love” as the moral alibi: separation isn’t abandonment; it’s maintenance.
There’s a gentle idealism here, but also a quiet negotiation: he’s asking to be judged by intention, not by logistics. That’s a very 21st-century request, and a surprisingly precise one.
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| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Martinez, Olivier. (2026, January 18). It's nice to have some distance with your family. As long as you're closer to them by love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-nice-to-have-some-distance-with-your-family-13607/
Chicago Style
Martinez, Olivier. "It's nice to have some distance with your family. As long as you're closer to them by love." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-nice-to-have-some-distance-with-your-family-13607/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's nice to have some distance with your family. As long as you're closer to them by love." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-nice-to-have-some-distance-with-your-family-13607/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





