"It's no secret that I love to talk, but the real secret is I love to listen, too"
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Then she flips the script with “but the real secret is I love to listen, too,” a neat piece of reputational jujitsu. “Secret” is doing double duty here. It implies there’s a private, more virtuous version of the public persona, and it invites the audience into that intimacy. For an entertainer whose job is conversation-as-performance, listening becomes the moral credential. It’s the trait that signals empathy, humility, professionalism - the subtle claim that the on-camera exuberance is anchored by off-camera attentiveness.
The context is daytime TV’s tightrope: hosts must be big enough to be the engine of the show, but warm enough that guests and viewers feel seen. Gifford’s phrasing also nods to a cultural shift in how we judge talkers. In an era of oversharing and constant commentary, “I listen” is not just personal; it’s aspirational, a way to align herself with emotional intelligence without sounding preachy.
Most of all, the sentence is stagecraft. It preserves her signature sparkle while quietly insisting she’s not merely a voice - she’s a receiver. That’s how you keep charisma from curdling into noise.
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Gifford, Kathie Lee. (2026, January 17). It's no secret that I love to talk, but the real secret is I love to listen, too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-no-secret-that-i-love-to-talk-but-the-real-62292/
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Gifford, Kathie Lee. "It's no secret that I love to talk, but the real secret is I love to listen, too." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-no-secret-that-i-love-to-talk-but-the-real-62292/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's no secret that I love to talk, but the real secret is I love to listen, too." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-no-secret-that-i-love-to-talk-but-the-real-62292/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







