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"It's no secret that I love to talk, but the real secret is I love to listen, too"

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The line reads like a wink from someone who knows her brand: the effusive daytime talker who can fill dead air with charm and a story. Kathie Lee Gifford starts by conceding the obvious - “It’s no secret that I love to talk” - which functions as a preemptive disarm. She names the critique before anyone else can. In celebrity culture, that move is protective: it frames her talkativeness as self-aware rather than self-important.

Then she flips the script with “but the real secret is I love to listen, too,” a neat piece of reputational jujitsu. “Secret” is doing double duty here. It implies there’s a private, more virtuous version of the public persona, and it invites the audience into that intimacy. For an entertainer whose job is conversation-as-performance, listening becomes the moral credential. It’s the trait that signals empathy, humility, professionalism - the subtle claim that the on-camera exuberance is anchored by off-camera attentiveness.

The context is daytime TV’s tightrope: hosts must be big enough to be the engine of the show, but warm enough that guests and viewers feel seen. Gifford’s phrasing also nods to a cultural shift in how we judge talkers. In an era of oversharing and constant commentary, “I listen” is not just personal; it’s aspirational, a way to align herself with emotional intelligence without sounding preachy.

Most of all, the sentence is stagecraft. It preserves her signature sparkle while quietly insisting she’s not merely a voice - she’s a receiver. That’s how you keep charisma from curdling into noise.

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Gifford, Kathie Lee. (2026, January 17). It's no secret that I love to talk, but the real secret is I love to listen, too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-no-secret-that-i-love-to-talk-but-the-real-62292/

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Gifford, Kathie Lee. "It's no secret that I love to talk, but the real secret is I love to listen, too." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-no-secret-that-i-love-to-talk-but-the-real-62292/.

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"It's no secret that I love to talk, but the real secret is I love to listen, too." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-no-secret-that-i-love-to-talk-but-the-real-62292/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Kathie Lee Gifford (born August 16, 1953) is a Entertainer from USA.

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