"It's not life or death it's a game and at the end of the game there is going to be a winner and a loser"
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The blunt pivot - “it’s a game” - is doing more than offering perspective. It’s a refusal of the moral drama athletes are often cast into: hero, choke artist, washed-up vet. Langer, a model of longevity and discipline, isn’t denying intensity; he’s trying to put it in its proper container so it doesn’t leak into identity. The subtext is professional self-defense: if your sense of worth rises and falls with each putt, the sport owns you.
Then he lands on the most unsentimental truth in competition: “there is going to be a winner and a loser.” No participation-trophy fog, no metaphysics of “journey.” It’s almost clinical, and that’s the point. By normalizing loss as the default outcome (because most players lose most weeks), he reframes defeat from personal failure to structural reality. The intent is to keep ego from hijacking performance: accept the binary, play your best, and don’t pretend the scoreboard is a verdict on your life.
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Langer, Bernhard. (2026, January 17). It's not life or death it's a game and at the end of the game there is going to be a winner and a loser. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-life-or-death-its-a-game-and-at-the-end-40467/
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Langer, Bernhard. "It's not life or death it's a game and at the end of the game there is going to be a winner and a loser." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-life-or-death-its-a-game-and-at-the-end-40467/.
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"It's not life or death it's a game and at the end of the game there is going to be a winner and a loser." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-life-or-death-its-a-game-and-at-the-end-40467/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.








