"It's not like I want to hop on a bandwagon, because I said it 15 years ago - bringing a child into your life who is not genetically yours is one of the most beautiful things you can do. But I'm also interested in having my own baby, too"
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The phrase “not genetically yours” is clinical on purpose. It names the stigma directly, refusing the euphemisms that often soften adoption talk. Then she counters with “one of the most beautiful things you can do,” a model-esque superlative that doubles as cultural persuasion: she’s not just defending a personal option, she’s trying to make it aspirational. In a world that still treats biology as the gold standard of legitimacy, she’s reframing caregiving as the real status symbol.
The second sentence is where the tension lives. “But” doesn’t cancel the first claim; it exposes the complicated truth that even people who champion adoption can still want biological connection, pregnancy, a physical legacy. Banks isn’t pretending to be above that desire. She’s asking for the right to be both: ethically expansive and personally longing.
Context matters: Banks built a brand on visibility and control, and fertility is where control famously breaks down. This reads like a public negotiation with expectations - fans, tabloids, and herself - insisting that wanting a “own baby” doesn’t invalidate valuing a child who isn’t “yours” by DNA. It’s an argument for plural, messy sincerity.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Banks, Tyra. (2026, January 15). It's not like I want to hop on a bandwagon, because I said it 15 years ago - bringing a child into your life who is not genetically yours is one of the most beautiful things you can do. But I'm also interested in having my own baby, too. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-like-i-want-to-hop-on-a-bandwagon-because-157529/
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Banks, Tyra. "It's not like I want to hop on a bandwagon, because I said it 15 years ago - bringing a child into your life who is not genetically yours is one of the most beautiful things you can do. But I'm also interested in having my own baby, too." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-like-i-want-to-hop-on-a-bandwagon-because-157529/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's not like I want to hop on a bandwagon, because I said it 15 years ago - bringing a child into your life who is not genetically yours is one of the most beautiful things you can do. But I'm also interested in having my own baby, too." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-like-i-want-to-hop-on-a-bandwagon-because-157529/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.





