"It's not so much about what you ask as what you don't ask"
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The intent is almost a confession. “What you don’t ask” signals the invisible negotiations behind the camera: access journalism, legal risk, the need to keep bookings, the desire to protect the mood of “good telly.” Parkinson’s genius was an ability to make guests talk - not by prosecuting them, but by giving them space to perform themselves. That requires restraint, sometimes ethical, sometimes tactical. The subtext is that omission can be kindness (not turning grief into spectacle), professionalism (not derailing into unprovable claims), or complicity (skirting the money, the scandal, the war, the hypocrisy).
It also reads as a critique of our current interview culture, where “accountability” is often measured by clip-worthy confrontation. Parkinson suggests the opposite: the most consequential editorial decisions are untelevised. The question left unasked isn’t neutral; it shapes the public record. In a medium that sells intimacy, he’s reminding us that intimacy is curated - and the borders of that curation tell you who holds power in the room.
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Parkinson, Michael. (2026, January 16). It's not so much about what you ask as what you don't ask. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-so-much-about-what-you-ask-as-what-you-116807/
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Parkinson, Michael. "It's not so much about what you ask as what you don't ask." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-so-much-about-what-you-ask-as-what-you-116807/.
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"It's not so much about what you ask as what you don't ask." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-so-much-about-what-you-ask-as-what-you-116807/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








