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Daily Inspiration Quote by Kyra Sedgwick

"It's not that I don't see myself as hot and sexy. Don't get me wrong. No, it's not that"

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The little stutter in Kyra Sedgwick's line is the whole performance: a self-correction that doubles as a preemptive defense. She starts by rejecting the expected script - the modest, self-deprecating actress who pretends she has no idea what anyone sees in her - then immediately swerves to reassure you she does, in fact, know. "Don't get me wrong" is the tell. It's not about confidence; it's about managing the room.

Sedgwick is navigating a trap that still snaps shut on women in Hollywood: admit you're sexy and you're vain or unserious; deny it and you're performing false humility, or worse, inviting the industry to decide your worth for you. So the sentence becomes a tightrope act in real time. She claims ownership of her desirability ("hot and sexy") while signaling she's not making a demand of the audience. The repetition - "It's not that... No, it's not that" - is social calibration, as if she's editing herself to avoid punishment on either side.

Context matters: an actress of Sedgwick's generation built a career in an ecosystem that commodifies women's looks, then polices them for acknowledging the transaction. The quote reads like a candid outtake from a longer conversation about aging, casting, or public image, where the real point isn't sexiness at all. It's control: insisting she gets to name herself before someone else does.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sedgwick, Kyra. (2026, January 17). It's not that I don't see myself as hot and sexy. Don't get me wrong. No, it's not that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-that-i-dont-see-myself-as-hot-and-sexy-48916/

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Sedgwick, Kyra. "It's not that I don't see myself as hot and sexy. Don't get me wrong. No, it's not that." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-that-i-dont-see-myself-as-hot-and-sexy-48916/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's not that I don't see myself as hot and sexy. Don't get me wrong. No, it's not that." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-that-i-dont-see-myself-as-hot-and-sexy-48916/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Kyra Sedgwick

Kyra Sedgwick (born August 19, 1965) is a Actress from USA.

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