"It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it"
About this Quote
The subtext is quietly anti-victim and quietly pro-system. If you’re breaking down, it isn’t proof you’re weak or cursed; it’s evidence your method is wrong. Carrying can mean mindset (catastrophizing vs. compartmentalizing), mechanics (training, recovery, preparation), and, crucially, delegation. Coaches preach “carry it” as if it’s individual grit, but the best teams distribute weight: roles clarified, communication tight, help normalized. Holtz’s phrasing allows both readings, which makes it portable across contexts from sports to corporate culture.
There’s also a moral edge: endurance becomes a skill you can be coached into. That’s classic Holtz-era football pragmatism, built in a culture that prized toughness but increasingly recognized burnout. The line comforts without absolving. It doesn’t deny the load; it demands you get smarter about how you hold it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Resilience |
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| Source | Evidence: ... It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it."— Lou Holtz Everyone talks about stress like it's just a normal part of life. "I'm so stressed about this test." "Work is really stressing me out." "My parents are ... Other candidates (1) Lou Holtz (Lou Holtz) compilation35.0% tz quotes thebleacherreportcom if what you did yesterday seems big you havent do |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Holtz, Lou. (2026, January 13). It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-the-load-that-breaks-you-down-its-the-way-27514/
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Holtz, Lou. "It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-the-load-that-breaks-you-down-its-the-way-27514/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/its-not-the-load-that-breaks-you-down-its-the-way-27514/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.









